Girls are attracted to strength. Work on those muscles (but don't go overboard because after a certain point it becomes a turn-off and they think the guy thinks too much of himself).
Sports like football are seriously appealing to girls, but unfortunately most people who play them are kind of brain dead. Swimming is OK and good exercise. If you're an individualist you could take up one of the martial arts. They have a mystique that can attract the more discerning type of female and girls obviously like a guy who can protect himself and them.
They often go for wealth as well so it helps if you're rich. They are much more practical than guys (some would say materialistic).
Girls don't go so much on looks as guys do. In fact if a guy is very good-looking it's sometimes a turn-off for them, because they think he's vain (which he often is). If someone is the "top dog" girls will go for him. Even an ugly guy can make it with pretty girls, if he's the kind of guy that other guys defer to.
Girls are into guys with status. If other guys look up to the guy and defer to him, that is seriously appealing to them. So work hard at school because those losers who laugh at the smart guys are the ones who will be serving them, and their girlfriends, hamburgers in ten years time.
Girls like guys to smile at them a lot. It reminds them of their Dad smiling at them when they were a baby. They also like guys who talk to them about whatever they are into (the girls I mean). Also they like guys with low-pitched voices because it is a sign of male authority.
You will know if a girl likes you because she will brush her hair away from her face when she talks to you and she may blush a little. It's a dead giveaway and they can't help it.
A good way to get to know a girl is indirectly, by chatting to her girl friends. But don't give the friend the impression that you fancy the friend if you don't, because that's not nice.
Hope this helps.|||I'm white, nerdy, not the strongest, and poor. She likes me for who i am, not what i have or where i am on the "social ladder". And all my girlfriend's friends speak Spanish (which i'm not that good at). So there you go… weirdos in every breed, every rule is meant to be broken, an exception, etc. etc… whatever you want to call it.
She's 20, i'm 18.|||i am a girl. and what you've said is rather true. but when i am talking to the guy i like, i don really have the habit of brushing hair off my face or blushing. lol. i seriously don blush. i will like, purposely give him a very cold look. and talk to him coldly. where in my heart i feel like grabbing him and hugging him so much(:|||i thought it was cool of you to reprint this. I found it very interesting, thank you.
and alot of its contents are very well put and the likeness to us women(some of us)are not mistaken,lol ….someone was taking notes!!!!|||Girls like sincerity. If you can fake that you've got it made.
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